*moving...*

hey friends! im moving... woooho!

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see yah there! god bless! :)

*random thoughts*

conversation is the best teacher [1,2,3...6... looking forward for more]

thesis-thesis-thesis. defense proposal. [two weeks from now. nyay!]

more bestfriend bonding [love you toinkz!]

musics [opms, classicals, more more!]

riders club

[kelan na ulit yun mia? haha!]

friendster

[deleting reel friends, keeping the real ones]

friends, friends, friends [laugh-tears-bond]

love me or hate me?!

[oh well, "she could be a beauty queen with just her t-shirt and her jeans..." haha!]

jes and liz, the sweet velley twins

[a.k.a. mae as jes and kaye as liz. hehe!]

do good and you'll feel better

[yes, its true]

hindi ako nabuhay dito sa mundo para i-please lahat ng tao, kung ayaw nyo sakin, mas lalong ayoko din sa inyo [get a life. - harsh!]

he'll always be special

[b.a.d.t.r.i.p.]

wishes everything could be healed again with a band-aid and lollipop [sniff!]

prayers

[offer it all to Him, talk to Him, thank Him, praise Him and don't forget Him especially when the going gets though]

happy birthday mama mary

[september 8]

wake me up when september ends

[...]

god bless everyone! :)

*happy ending*

Isang araw habang nagbabasa ako ng ibang blog (tulad ng nakagawian ko na...) may isang blog akong nabasa na nakakatuwa talaga. At habang binabasa ko ang kanyang blog ay di ko mapigilang kiligin, maiyak, at matuwa dahil sa aking nabasa. Kung ang huling post ko ay tungkol sa “could have been fairytale ending,” ang post na nabasa ko sa blog na ito ay isang “fairytale ending” talaga. Kung sa huling entry ko ay nafrustate ako, ngayon naman ay nainspire ako. Isang patunay na hindi lahat ng relasyon ay tulad nalang ng iba na kadalasang nauuwi lang sa hiwalayan. Kaya tama, hindi ko dapat ginigeneralize (hindi ko dapat ikatakot o ikatrauma yun) na lahat ng nangyayari sa iba, mangyayari din sayo o sa akin o kung kanino man. Maaaring oo pero ganun talaga ang buhay e. Pwedeng maiwasan pero minsan di maiiwasang makakaranas ka rin non. (ang gulo ko yata... haha!) Kasama na yun sa buhay, mga spices yun para mas maging "better persons" tayo at syempre maging mas strong. We just have to have faith in HIM.:)

”click here: "This is Her Story” (actually, Their Story!) “Ngayon ikakasal na kami at masayang masaya..I believe God made our paths cross early for us to get to know each other first and the reason why we were not involved earlier with each other emotionally is because God is preparing us, so that we would be able to know how to relate with each other and compliment each other. He is everything I wanted to be. In God's time, I found my one true love. Thank God for His wonderful gift to me and for the persons he used to make it possible for us to meet...” – Ms. Lei

Awww, sweet no?! hehehe! Sana nainspire din kayo at kinilig!ü

*Hindi ko personal na kilala ang may ari ng blog na yun. Madalas ko lang sya makita sa simbahan tuwing araw ng Linggo. Ganun pa man, I wish you all the best. God bless you both. :)

*part ways*

Nothing is permanent in this world. Days ago, two people close to me decided to walk different paths. After almost half a year of being together, they opt to make a new life without each other. As the saying goes, “All things must come to an end...” The group will miss the super kulitan, kainan, pamatay na dreams in life, strolling, long trips, late night bondings and of course the both of them –together. But its okay, life goes on, everything happens for a reason. I’m sure that God has better plans for both of them, maybe not as a couple but in their separate lives.

Now, another could have been fairytale love story has ended.

*case #143: define love*

*** “Don’t just listen to what I say but more importantly to what I don’t say. So you think you already know the real me? Well, think again...” “Love is indeed a word worn out of use. What most of us think (admit it or not) is that whenever we feel that “kilig” factor means we love the person already. And that is the major reason why most of us fail the relationship we’ve made with the person we love. We should not rely solely by sparks and magical feelings because loving someone is not always about fairytales and fantasies. It’s about truth and reality.” – sis Love: an issue that people never get tired to talk about. Love, indeed really makes our life worthwhile. And as what the song says, “All we need is love...” :) "There are three great things in the world. The first thing is for you to love someone. The second greatest thing is for someone to love you. And the third is for the first and second to happen at the same time...” Define Love: Year 199*-high school days Aside from the cliché: “Love is blind,” love, according to one of my friends is, “a strong feeling with matching goose bumps!” Oh well, sounds very high school. Love for me then was when boy likes girl and girl likes boy, courtship sooner or later follows. Then there’ll be teddy bears, cuddles, kiss and make up, constant togetherness with your so called “special someone” (or ka-m.u.) and other mushy acts of puppy love. "Never set a standard in the love you're looking for 'cause you'll end up eating your words for love comes with the unlikely person and if you ask God why? He will answer: Love moves in mysterious ways...” Define Love: Year 200*-college days You cannot define what love really is, you just feel it... an unexplainable feeling. Gone are the goose bumps days because this time, love can either make or break a person. Slowly, we mature and everything eventually follows. The mushy things of puppy love will be appended with sweet kisses and beautiful roses. Love now is happiness yes, but it also means tears and getting hurt. Well, I still believe that love is blind but this time, not too blind for the person not to see what reality and fallacy is. As we grow, things are also starting to change. It can be too complicated if we don’t know how to handle it. By the time we knew that we’re really in love, it already happened. “Let your mind and not your heart tell you what to do. Feelings don’t think. Love with all your heart but let your mind sensibly tell you the difference between what you know is real love and what you think is just infatuation.” – joe d’mango Difference between Like and Love: Year 2006-still in college [I once told you I like you but it doesn’t necessarily mean that I already (well, as far as I know) love you. I have more reasons not to like you but I don’t know why the heck I like you! (Argh!) But I never asked you if you “like” me too. Never. (Reasons: 1. Fear of Rejection. 2. I just “like” you, that’s it!) That’s why it really annoys me (and yes, partly hurt) to hear lines like “The guy tried blah, blah... but you’re just a friend to him.” and another was, “...but according to him, he’s not closing doors.” Now, if you really said that, who do you think has a pre-concede mind? Huh?!] “At some point of your life, you’ll meet wonderful people. So wonderful you’d fall for them and mistaken that they feel the same way. But the truth is they’re just nice, -only too nice...” They met couple of years ago but they were never friends. All they had were just casual hi and hello’s or sometimes an exchange of SMS, nothing special. There were only few instances that their paths would meet. [Fast forward!] Until one day, girl got drunk and told the guy she liked him. Guy was of course shocked and so as the girl, who wished, the next day, that it didn’t really happen. From then on, things between them started to get a little awkward. Small things got complicated. [Fast forward!!!] Then girl was misunderstood. She’s not mad but rather -sad. No one understands her. [The End. think so...] “Just because my eyes don’t tear doesn’t mean my heart doesn’t cry. And just because I come out strong doesn’t mean there’s nothing wrong. Often I chose to pretend I’m happy so I don’t have to explain myself to people who would never even understand. Smiling has always been easier than explaining why I’m sad.” – mia dagal Realization: Mas masaya ang buhay single. Hindi ako mahihiya kung hanggang ngayon single parin ako. Hindi naman ako pihikan. May mga “reasons” lang ako. Hindi ko naman siguro ikamamatay kung hindi ako magkaka-boyfriend no. At lalong hindi ako makikipag relasyon para lang masabing may boyfriend ako. As I always say: “it’s a choice.” Kung magiging attached ako, aba, sino nalang ang hihilahin nyo ng biglaan kung maylakad kayo? O kasama nyo sa pagbili ng regalo sa mga “jowa” nyo? O sino nalang ang pwede nyo itext, tawagan o kausapin hanggang dis oras ng gabi para maging shock absorber o tagapakinig ng mga never ending kwento nyo sa mga boy/girlfriends nyo? Oh, lungkot diba?! (Hahaha!) Naku, kung magkakaboyfriend ako, dadating din yun. I’ll just cross the bridge when I get there. (Hmmm...) Kung hindi naman e okie lang din. Kaya sa mga friends ko na lagi nalang ang unang tanong pag nakita ako e, “May boyfriend ka na ba?” imbis na, “Kumusta ka na?” e baka magsawa na kayo sa kakatanong wala parin akong boyfriend. Eh kasi naman dati akong lalaki. Bading ako, remember? :)

>>>blog still under renovation... :)